
Patricia Nafuna (formally known as Cyrilla Nafuna) suffered and survived severe domestic violence while continuing her nursing training.
She helped sustain her family economically and emotionally, and eventually left her abusive husband to start her own a community-based organisation, Initiative in Poverty Eradication, Aids Control and Food Security Movement (IPEFAM), so that women and girls would learn how to take care of themselves through community development, life skills training, and education for girls.
Despite many challenges, Patricia persists in her quest to help others through years of abuse, and beyond.
Domestic violence and discrimination among women is bad in Kenya, especially in the rural areas. I don’t have any survey data or specific figures for the same, but about 20% of women are discriminated and face domestic violence.
Yes! There are laws in Kenya to protect women from violence and discrimination but they are not enforced. During the drafting of the new constitution, IPEFAM was one of the organizations chosen to represent the grassroots community at the national level on land questions and property ownership.
We contributed that women have rights to own land and property. The new constitution is good, but implementation is the challenge.
Cultural attitudes are the most contributory factors across all tribes in Kenya. Judicial representation of women is inadequate.
The culture has not changed, even with the new constitution. More advocacy has to be done continuously. Civic education – especially at the grassroots, should be maximized.
There is no other option for women to be represented adequately at different levels, eg. judiciary, parliament, educational institutions, and local government.
Men feel superior to women – and are also envious, wanting women to be under them .The men also feel threatened when women excel. They want to be served by women as servants.
Women to have adequate education to be competent to hold responsible jobs, know their rights, and give civic education to women in rural areas. Reinforce laws protecting women from violence.
I tell them to respect others. Know their rights, including reproductive rights. Refuse any form of violence, whether domestic, at their place of work, or at public places. Above [all] that, to have adequate education.
My life changed because I was able to work again, and take loans from the banks for school fees. I am able to take care of my children, educate them, and now am training them.
I feel free from threats of domestic violence because I know my rights.
No! I have no physical effects, but when I remember the plot and the land he sold – then used the money, I feel bad that he has taken me underhandedly. We don’t have a home. I have to start thinking of getting a home for my children and myself.
- Domestic violence sometimes leading to deaths.
- Most women are rendered homeless by their husbands, especially those affected by HIV.
- Rape, especially in rural areas.
- Transmission of HIV infections.
Yes!
In the place where I am working, some women seeking to know their sero status are refused by their husbands.
Some women who are HIV positive are refused by their husbands to take drugs or ARVs (antiretroviral drug), so they have to swallow [the drugs] at a neighbor’s house or in the field.
- Not allowed to test for HIV.
- Being refused to take ARVs by their husbands.
- To remain housewives.
- Not to be associated with people living with HIV.
Care is by NGOs through programs in mission hospitals, e.g AIDS relief, the Academic Model Providing Access to Healthcare (AMPATH), APHIA PLUS (a government grant program) and community based organizations like IPEFAM. Money comes from USAID and the UN Global Fund through the government of Kenya. They receive ARVs, health education, counseling, and testing and sometimes they are given food.
Maternal health has improved in most areas in Kenya, leading to reduced infant mortality except in hunger-stricken parts where there is prolonged drought and lack of transportation . Kenya is working hard to improve the transport and irrigation schemes to enable adequate food production.
Kenya needs to reinforce the laws – especially those that make women feel at home.
Women in town are enlightened, but those in rural areas need to be taught prevention of diseases affecting them, depending on their places of residence or geographical areas. To increase awarenesss on their sero status.
You founded a community-based organisation, Initiative in Poverty Eradication, Aids Control and Food Security Movement (IPEFAM), in 2004 – what exactly made you want to start this organisation?
Orphans with care providers
I started this organization to learn more when participating in different forums and networking meetings.
I wanted also to teach women and girls to take care of themselves and their children. Innovative ways of searching for adequate food for their families. Behaviour change communication to new infections of HIV. Care for orphans and vulnerable children.
IPEFAM providing a wheelchairIPEFAM’s vision is to scale up the youth forum activities though acquiring land to establish a youth centre for training young women in community development and life skills, and enhancing education for girls. We are looking for a volunteer fundraiser who could raise funds to build a youth centre.
Our mission is ensuring that [having] HIV-free young women leads to a healthy and stress-free community.
- Lack of the premises to carry out activities. Rented premises; landlords undermine the organization by harassment through claiming high rates, leading to loss of property and equipment.
Income-generating activities
- Community ownership. The community does not readly accept ownership of the project in giving financial support. Most people want ready-made things to grab.
- Lack of finances to meet the demands of the activities of the project.
HIV Positive children gather for food & counsellingI advise the women girls not accept domestic violence because they have equal rights like their male counterparts.
They should seek legal actions for assistance. They should have adequate education and employment to give them good income that will facilitate payments for lawyers should they be needed. They should be alert to recognize any form violence and refuse torture.
Offering clothes to vulnerable children.I would like the women and girls of Kenya to know their rights – especially reproductive, and teach their children about their rights.
Be vigilant to fight stigma, discrimination, and violence in general, against women and girls.
In 2004, Cyrilla Nafuna founded a community based organization [CBO] called IPEFAM- [ Initiative in poverty Eradication, Aids control and Food security Movement].
The organization was largely funded by Cyrilla's earnings from the clinic.
The goal of the CBO was working towards better health for all women and children with special emphasis on their rights.
Objectives:
Proposed Activities
Lack of funding has been an ongoing challenge and meeting the rental fees for the premises is a constant struggle.
Cyrilla's Vision:
To find out more about the Initiative in Poverty Eradication, Aids Control and Food Security Movement (IPEFAM), please email: ipefam@ymail.com
Interview Part 1: Cyrilla Nafuna - From Victim to Advocate for Kenya's Women and Girls