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Hope in the Desert - The Children of Kaabong

CAMBODIA

In Cambodia, local men are still mostly unpunished for buying sex with children.

The Southeast Asian Kingdom of Cambodia is a predominately Buddhist country, with a population of approximately 15 million. (UN 2010) Cambodia borders Thailand and the southern part of Vietnam.

85% of the population live in rural areas ensuring agriculture remains the most important resource.

Cambodia has a tragic past and is deeply influenced by its history from decades of conflict. Under the Khmer Rouge regime, an estimated 1.7 million people died.

The Khmer Rouge plunged the country into deep poverty and political instability.

Their destruction of all social, health, educational and financial systems during their reign had a devastating effect which is still felt today.

Although Cambodia has survived the brutality of the regime, it continues to face many challenges.

Today, it is one of the poorest countries in the world and relies heavily on foreign aid.

Financial pressures in recent years have forced many farmers to sell their land.

More than a third of Cambodia's population lives on less than $1 per day.

Sex Tourism

Tourism is one of the main industries in Cambodia and it is growing rapidly.

Up to 20% of international tourists to Cambodia are sex tourists and among them are those who seek children.

But according to ECPAT, the vast majority of former child sex workers say their clients were local men. These findings run contrary to "the usually held assumption that paedophilia is a Western problem."

"Cambodian men prefer beautiful, fair-skinned, and younger looking sex workers, basically minors," says Chin Chanveasna, head of ECPT's Cambodian office.

Children in Cambodia - AFP

Source: Dawncom/AFP

Cambodia’s ‘orphan tourism’ sparks concern

Pictures of hundreds of former volunteers line the walls of a muddy courtyard in Cambodia’s tourist hub of Siem Reap, their faces once familiar to the orphans playing there but now long gone.

The colourful gallery at the Acodo orphanage illustrates a growing trend of holidaymakers donating their time and skills to children in the impoverished country — but experts fear they could be doing more harm than good.

Marissa Soroudi, a student in her 20s from New York, is one of the many volunteers teaching English at Acodo, near the famed temples of Angkor and home to more than 60 orphans between the ages of three and 18.

The young American, who pays $50 a week to work at the orphanage, plans to stay for a few days before travelling on but she knows it is tough on the children to watch volunteers like her come and go.

One leaves and another swoops in

“There are so many people volunteering that it’s kind of like, one leaves and another swoops in,” she said.

“They say better not to talk about it with them.

Don’t say ‘I’m leaving in a week’, don’t do any of that because then they get upset. Better to just not come.”

Short-term volunteers may have good intentions, but childcare experts say they are putting some of the most vulnerable children at risk.

Change of caregivers gives emotional loss to children

“Constant change of caregivers gives emotional loss to children, constant emotional loss to already traumatised children,” Jolanda van Westering, a child protection specialist at the United Nations Children’s Fund (Unicef) told AFP.

“And the constant exposure to strangers poses risks of harm, of violence and abuse, because we know that oftentimes volunteers come to an orphanage without having their backgrounds checked.”

As the gateway to the ancient temples of Angkor — which attract more than a million visitors a year — a steady stream of tourists passes through the sleepy riverside town.

And many want to do more than just sightsee in one of the region’s poorest nations.

Visitors see some poverty and want to do something

On notice boards in hotels, cafes and souvenir shops, wide-eyed children stare from posters for schools and orphanages, encouraging travellers to donate time and money for their particular cause.

“Visitors see some poverty and they feel bad about it,” said Ashlee Chapman, a project manager with Globalteer, an organisation that matches volunteers with local organisations.

“They want to do something,” she adds, saying they might visit a children’s project for a few hours, donate money and toys, “take a holiday snap and feel that they’ve contributed.”

As the so-called volunteer tourism sector flourishes, so too does the number of institutions housing children.

Number of orphanages has doubled

In the past six years, the number of orphanages in Cambodia has almost doubled to 269, housing some 12,000 children, according to Unicef.

Friends International, a local organisation that works with marginalised urban children and youths, says tourism has contributed to the increase.

Visiting orphanages has become a tourist “attraction” in big cities like Phnom Penh and Siem Reap, said Marie Courcel, alternative care project manager at Friends International.

That in turn encourages the institutionalisation of youngsters, many of whom are very poor but actually have at least one living parent, she said.

Only one in 10 of the orphanages are funded by the state, the rest rely on charitable contributions to survive.

Entertainment for tourists

At Siem Reap’s Acodo, huddled with the children in the shade of the only tree, Soroudi organises the afternoon activity.

Following her lead, the orphans make headpieces out of grass and add licks of paint to green and yellow conical hats, costumes they will wear in that evening’s traditional Khmer dance show.

The daily half-hour event attracts a tourist crowd who thank the young performers with donations of money.

Van Westering said she worried about the dangers for children who are expected to raise funds for their care by begging or putting on shows for tourists.

“They have to do their best and they hear that also if they don’t there isn’t enough money for their care,” said Van Westering. “You can just imagine what that does to children to live in that kind of insecure environment.”

Her advice to tourists pondering a brief working stint at an orphanage is simple: “Don’t go. Give blood, support a community-based organisation that provides day activities for a child but where the children go home at night.”

Betsy Brittenham, an interior designer in her 50s from Arizona, and her 15-year-old daughter Alex are spending three weeks as volunteer teachers at one such place, the Grace House Community Centre, where the children return to their families each evening.

The mother and daughter team, who planned their trip months in advance, say volunteering at a reputable centre is a chance to make a difference in a country with fewer resources and opportunities than their own.

Like the volunteers at Acodo, Betsy pays for the privilege of working on her holiday but she sees no downsides to the experience.

“When you volunteer like this you’re bringing your money and you’re making tremendous strides and teaching their children,” she said.

“It’s something you can’t put a price on.”

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